My Coming Out Experience

About a year ago I purchased a CB3000 for self gratification so to say, and have played with it on and off. The longest I have worn it was 3 days on a recent business trip. Not long I know but long enough.

Anyway I decided that I should really discuss my fantises with my wife, better for her to reject them than to spend the next XXX years wondering if things could have been more fun. Anyway the decision was made to tell her I was just waiting for the right time to discuss this with her....

Well the time came just after Christmas, as a bit of fun I brought her a vibrator, which arrived late of course, but anyway, it was taken well, however she seemed very persistant in what toys I would like for myself. The children were outside, Now's the time I thought...

The conversation went a little like this

'What would you like..'

'Bondage is good, maybe some leather cuffs'

'err, what do you want tied up, arms, legs, willy... WHAT?'

'Well I would really like you to lock me up in a CB'

'Whats one of those, a great big metal thing..

'No not necessarily'

'What do they look like? Do you have one?

'er yes'

'Go and get it NOW!'

'Is that it.. put it on how does it feel'

In hindsight I am sure she knew something although she denies it. Anyway she took to keyholding like a duck to water. She thinks it is absolutely brilliant. Within the hour I was wearing my CB3000 and have been ever since. We have had quite a few long conversations on my reasons for wearing it, and she seems OK with that, we spent some time looking at various web sites and I think it really opened her eyes to whats out there. I recently had an email that she had seen a sybian on the net and wanted one :-) The only negative thing that came out was that I had had a CB for a year without telling her, she felt a little upset about that.

Anyway I have been let out several times for release, but she appears happy that I wear the thing permantly. It is her view that it is all or nothing, which I suppose has some validity. My next challange is that I have to go on a 2 day business trip and at the same time she disppears for a week. I will be locked up with one of the disposable plastic locks for the week. Business trips are pretty boring I find and usually mastarbate multiple times. This time not it appears!

To be honest, I was extremely surprised about the changes in behaviour/personality that I experienced whilst wearing my CB. I am certainly aware that release is only through my wife now and that she has control of all my sexual energy. Pleasing her seems to be my main preoccupation. One new feeling today was that I left her alone with a workman at home, they were constructing some items of furniture, and working closely together. I felt realy odd, knowing that my wife was free to to engage in sex with this man, and there was me locked up dependant on her releasing me to satisfy her. Humbling...

To me the experience of wearing a CB is not about not having an orgasm but having an orgasm when my wife wants me to have one. Not been able to frequently masterbate is a positive thing I think, and keeps me more focused on my partner. We decided (rightly or wrongly I am not sure) that we would not have a fixed release date except cleaning, I would come out when she felt like it. I guess the advantage of this is that it really keeps me focused on her not on the release date.

I thinks thats all for now folks. Thanks for listening.

Batandball

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