Saturday mornings - A Keyholder's Perspective

My husband has written to you before under the name "Chastity Novice" about our experience with his new CB-2000, and I have provided some initial thoughts from the keyholder's perspective. This is an update after another several weeks of experience.

We have continued to fine-tune the fit. Last time I mentioned we were usng the middle (No. 3) ring and an 11/16 inch spacing. We found with this combination that on two occasions the device simply fell off as the penis and balls became flacid. The solution, which is now proving very secure and sufficiently comfortable, is a 1/2 inch spacing. We strongly urge couples to keep experimenting if you have initial problems, and our advice is: smaller is better. You will be surprised how tight it can get and still be quite wearable.

I have to say that watching Chastity Novice get into the CB-2000 is a little bit of a hoot. He is so tentative about feeding his balls through the ring (I guess they ARE rather tender) and it takes him several tries to get both in. All the while he is whining about "I don't think it is going to fit this time" and begging for a bigger ring. But eventually it always does fit.

Men have such a fixation with cock size! I can't of course claim we ladies are immune from such things -- look at the number of silicone boob jobs done. But if men were not such spineless wimps when it comes to anything medical, I truly believe penis augmentation surgery would be the hottest part of the medical industry!! But I digress . . .

Anyway, we have developed the practice of locking him up after dinner each Friday for a weekend of chastity. I decide whether he is allowed to cum first. Sometimes he does, sometimes not, depending on how he has behaved during the week. But he is always securely locked in by bedtime, if not right after dinner.

Now here is the unexpected fringe benefit of the CB-2000: We have been married 30 years and one of our biggest incompatabilities has been getting up in the morning. I like to bounce out of bed and get going, while he wants to lie there and snuggle and cuddle and pet and -- if he can get away with it -- screw. I read recently that men have a testosterone rush between 4 and 6 am, so I guess I understand why this is, but it is sure a nuisance.

Weekdays and Sundays before church there is a good excuse to get up promptly and he grudgingly complies. But Saturday mornings are always a bother. I want to be up and doing, just when he wants to be petting. And he begs and pleads and whines in the most male way about how he wants intercourse. More times than I would like, I give in and let him take me. He has a great time, but it absolutely does nothing for me, and it leaves a girl drippy all day. I hate it!

The CB-2000 has changed all that. Hubby gets locked in Friday night. Overnight he has a couple of very painful erections that remind him of his chastized state. (He says there are sometimes as many as four that wake him up and force him to think quiet thoughts to get the pain to stop.) In the morning, he knows that petting will just get him sore again, and he carefully avoids touching me, though his whining to be let out and allowed to screw continues. But, girls, knowing that I hold the key to his happiness (pun intended) is so empowering that it is no problem to "Just Say No". At last, Saturday mornings are not just a nuisance!

What is the psychology here? I could have said "No" even when he was not locked up. But somehow the symbolism of actually having him under lock and key --- with the key in me keeping -- seems to legitimize and ease my refusal, no matter how much he begs. It's great!

By the way, the key hangs on a beautiful gold necklace chain he bought me that is long enough to allow it to nestle between my breasts. He has always been a tit man, and I know he is constantly looking at that part of me. He admits that knowing the key is right there between his two favorite toys is a terrble turn-on that makes him very uncomfortable!

Well, time to run. He is still lying in bed. I'll give him a little show as I put on my bra. Getting him hard in that thing and watching him squirm as everything starts to pinch and ache is just so delicious!

Chastity Novice's Keyholder

P.S. Girls, even though he can't get hard or cum in the CB-2000, he does leak pre-cum like a worn-out faucet. It makes such a stain on his panties. And that gives a good excuse to order him to hand-wash all the week's dirty lingerie . . . his and mine. This is so great!

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