Review of Access Denied Experiences

A little over a year ago when browsing various BDSM sites, I stumbled accidentally upon the late Tammad's chastity belt page. While my interest in things FemDom and Bondage related goes back to late adolescence, I really wasn't aware that modern chastity belts existed until reading Tammad's amazing resource. I immediately took an interest in the subject matter and read all I could, including the various stories, reviews and articles at Altairboy's site. Having a wonderful, but mostly vanilla wife, I never really anticipated chastity as something I'd ever get to experience firsthand. We've played with light bondage from time to time, but as I've mentioned in some mailing list accounts before, I could probably count on one hand the number of times the toybag had been out of the closet in the past year.

Ironically and surprisingly, my wife happened upon a page of chastity devices in a mail order sex toy catalog about six months ago, and seemed interested in the possibilities. Having never previously discussed my interest in chastity with her, I tried to play it cool and said I'd look into what was available on the Internet. To make a long story short, within about 2 weeks I was the proud owner of a brand new CB-2000, and my journey was about to begin. Sadly, however, I turned out to be one of the unfortunate few whose testicles hang a little too close to the body, and after several weeks with the CB-2000, the extreme discomfort factor (including lacerations on my scrotum due to the extreme stretching) brought things to a screeching halt.

In that time, however, we had mutually developed a plan which made my being locked up a positive thing for both of us. We came up with a point system whereby I'd earn points based on performing household chores, pleasuring her orally or manually, and by performing random acts of kindness. I'd also lose points by not accomplishing several expected chores or by exhibiting disrespectful behavior. At the beginning of each week, a certain point value was established, and I'd have to reach that plateau in order to gain release from the CB. The week began each Sunday afternoon/evening and ran through Sunday morning. The worst case scenario - if I didn't reach my point total - meant I'd be released for a few hours on Sunday morning before going back in the device. It worked like a charm, and most weeks I'd be free by Friday night or Saturday. I was more productive in my business and my wife loved the change in my disposition and the substantial amount of attention she was receiving. As the CB-2000 just became unbearable, we started looking for an alternative.

That alternative arrived last week in the form of a visit to Access Denied in Lindenhurst, NY. As has been mentioned in other reviews, their business is in an industrial section of town, amidst landscapers and body shops in a very unassuming building. I actually missed it the first time I drove by!

I was met at the door shortly after 9 AM by Brigitta who immediately made me feel welcome and very much at ease. Over coffee we discussed the various options available and I decided upon the adjustable waist male belt with the high security penis tube since I'm prone to shrinkage, especially in cold weather. At that point, Paul entered the room and the two of them went to work measuring me in a very meticulous manner. Being totally nude in front of two strangers was surprisingly easy due to their low-key, professional demeanor.

After determining the right sizes, they went to work developing a belt which was fitted for the first time about an hour later. After some discussion among the three of us, it was determined what changes needed to be made and a short time later the belt was brought back for another fitting. Since this time it was close to a perfect fit as I could have imagined, we ended the trial process and the belt was sent back to the machine shop for the final touches.

Since that process would take about 2 to 2.5 hours, Paul recommended a nearby restaurant where I went for lunch and a few beers. I returned to Access Denied around 2:30 PM, waited about another 30 minutes, and at approximately 3 PM my new belt was brought into the room. At that point, Brigitta took me through all the steps involved with properly wearing the belt as well as the proper methods for locking and unlocking. After a few practice attempts and further discussion of proper hygiene, I was on my way by approximately 4 PM with my new custom fitted belt. Both Brigitta and Paul recommended a break-in period and advised that I not attempt to wear the belt on my 4+ hour drive home the next day. I did wear it for the 25 minute drive back to the hotel, and couldn't help but enjoy walking past the bellman and desk personnel with the knowledge that my stainless steel underwear was completely undetectable to them.

After arriving home the next day I put the belt back on and even my wife wasn't aware that I was wearing it when she got home from work. We chatted for about 5 minutes before I rubbed up against her so she'd notice. I figured that if she didn't notice despite being aware of my trip to Access Denied, no one would.

It's now been five days since the fitting and I've been gradually adding to my wearing time. My record to date has been 16 straight hours including an uneventful night sleeping in it. The plan is to continue the break-in and adjustment period the remainder of this week before turning over the keys next Sunday afternoon to once again begin the weekly ritual.

The only discomfort I've experienced so far has been in terms of the tightness of the waistband. The more I wear it though, the less it bothers me. I should add that I do have a considerable amount of extra flab around the middle and if I'm able to reduce that a little, the belt will be even more comfortable while still being secure above my hip bones. I've found it completely comfortable when walking and standing, and only slightly uncomfortable after sitting for long periods due to the contact made at the base of the scrotum where the front shield and ass chains meet. Urinating and defecating have been no problem, and aside from a little more time spent dabbing with toilet tissue, don't appear to be an obstacle to long-term wear. I've only showered once while wearing the belt so far, but that also doesn't seem to be an issue as the only additional effort is the time spent drying the crotch area with a blow dryer.

Although the one-day service comes at a steep price, I highly recommend it to anyone interested in an Access Denied belt. I honestly can't imagine being able to provide accurate enough measurements to have mail-ordered a belt that fits this well, and I certainly wouldn't have had the benefit of Paul and Brigitta's experience and knowledge.

I'll send more information after a few months of wear, but at this point, I'm very optimistic that this belt is going to not only meet, but probably exceed my expectations.

JMS

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