It was originally my idea to get a chastity device, but my wife "kind of liked" the idea and was willing to give it a try [ what an understatement ]. Almost immediately after getting the CB-2000 back in May (www.tpe.com/~altarboy/nt000524.htm), I found myself locked up and in a 3-month contract. I wasn’t sure what she found most intriguing about it, but have gleaned a little bit since. You see, we have a wonderful marriage, but we also work together in a situation where I have all the authority. And at times, I admit, I would get carried away with that authority. My wife now has a means of "equalizing" that authority - and she readily uses it (to my frustration and turn-on).
During our contract, I have been locked up 24/7 a couple times. Once was for failure to re-lock at the designated time (see our rules); and the other was on a bet. When in 24/7, I don’t get out for ANYTHING. Well almost anything... I’ve still found I can negotiate, whine, and influence a little to get some concession - which is good for my frustration, but perhaps bad because it transfers some power back to me. Overall though, I have spent the majority of the last 3 months in a locked-up (and horny) state. What’s odd is that when not locked-up, my sexual drive is lower simply because I can have sexual release at any time I want.
My wife quickly learned what works best in maintaining her control. Upon lock-up, there is never any pre-designated release date. Occasionally, if we have a social commitment later in the week, she’ll say "If you’re real good to me, then maybe..." Of course that means I’d better give her a wake-up surprise or a back-rub or take her out to dinner in the meantime. And if I start to ask or beg for release sooner than my wife thinks is right, she merely coos, "Your seed isn’t ripe yet." When released, I have full opportunity to have sex with her or play with myself... all the time not knowing exactly when I’ll go back into lock-up. More than a few times, I’ve taken that freedom for granted - playing with myself once and then relaxing for several days when suddenly - "snap" - I’m locked up again and immediately throbbing from not having any recent release.
Within the first month, I could tell my wife was starting to look at this as a possible long-term arrangement. She liked the changes in me (although to me they seemed very subtle), and she really likes the back-rubs and wake-up surprises where she is satisfied without feeling any obligation toward my pleasure. Basically, she has taken control and ownership of my sexuality - which is a turn-on for us both. She now has me keep my pubic area completely shaved, and even arranged for a tattoo (which could be partially hidden if my hair were ever permitted to grow back). That was painful, but worth it - because she loves it!
Escape from the CB-2000 was a potential problem from the start. When completely flaccid, it is possible to pull my cock out and play with it. The only prevention was knowing that if caught, I’d be forced to wear the CB’s "rings-of-intrigue" or "teeth" as she calls them. After about 3 days of being locked up "when at the state of maximum frustration" that can make for some painful early morning wake up calls and a dash for a cold shower or ice pack. Finally, my wife decided on a different solution as shown in the attached photo. With a new Prince Albert piercing, a second padlock (keyed alike) is used to lock the piercing through the end of the CB-2000. No escape now!
And as for having tight (high) balls, my wife found an aluminum ball
stretcher at Mr. S Leather Company that she has me wear whenever
possible - sometimes even with the CB-2000 as shown. My balls have
dropped a good 1/2 inch in the past couple months, making the CB-2000 very
comfortable to wear.
Still, I do find myself occasionally, and consciously, testing the limits of our rules. It may involve whining a bit, re-locking a tad late, locking a lock myself (see rules), or slipping out to relax if both locks aren’t locked. And in most cases, I get away with it without any consequences... particularly when my wife is stressed by work or other situations. [She hates being told she’s too lax or getting soft!] The more I get away with, the more I tend to push. Don’t ask me why - it’s just part of male nature, and retaining some control.
So now, the BIG question. What happens at the end of our 3-month contract which is up next week? I think that my wife would like to extend it to a full year (or maybe even permanently!). That’s intriguing because of the helplessness and submission of control it would represent. Yet at the same time, I miss some of the light bondage and BDSM which we had experienced more prior to the chastity device. Perhaps another 3-month contract would be more to my liking. Or maybe I should take a month or more off, just to show that I’m still in control. I haven’t made up my own mind yet, but (as any male knows) my leaning depends on my current state of horniness and bondage, not to mention sobriety. I can only imagine what’s going through my wife’s mind as she reads this and wonders what tactics she can use to get me to renew our contract.
Another question: If we do renew our contract, what should be the new "Rules of Conduct" (see my original report). Because of our loving relationship, my wife finds it difficult at times to be disciplinary or hard-nosed. Yet that can be one of the greatest turn-ons for me. I’m not into permanent or long-term lock-up (>2-3wks), but we have both thought about the Kali’s Teeth for those "special" situations. And maybe there’s a way to work our light bondage/BDSM back into the new Rules of Conduct. Or perhaps there’s some ideas we can get from old (or new) reports on this web site. And who knows, as a pre-condition for signing a new contract, I just might get my wife to submit a report on her own thoughts about male chastity and control to this site.
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