Hi Altairboy:
I am an 32 Year old German male, living in the southern part of Germany. So, please forgive me for the following rape of the English language. You can use this message as a contribution to your site.
I do not remember when the "bondage thing" became important in my life. All I know is that it must have been very early. At the age of sixteen I became attracted to special clothes made of PVC like rainwear. But that was just because I did not know that clothes made of rubber or latex were produced.
At that time I tied myself up with home made wrist and ankle cuffs made of metal and lined with a rubber tube. I still use these devices, especially with a combination of a home made harness. The harness is made of chains which are welded at appropriate points and it is lined with a rubber tube too. All these devices are secured with a Padlock.
Two years ago, I saw a TV-magazine called "Liebe Suende" which deals with all aspects of human sexuality. So, one day they made a report about latex and rubber fetishes. This was the first time I recognized that I was not the only weird person in the world, who has strange ideas about sexuality. Beforehand I always thought that I was totally abnormal and that I should start a therapy sooner or later. Maybe You can imagine what a relief I felt.
Right after this report I searched the internet for providers of rubber and latex items and I really found a lot. So I equipped myself with a lot of clothes and other items since then.
I only wear them occasionally because my wife is unfortunately absolutely uninterested in these things. We had a discussion about this theme and she knows about my interest in latex clothes but she really does not like it. All she could accept is a latex body from time to time. I think I just have to accept that fact. Indeed, I would like to see her in a latex outfit but how can I convince her. Can You give me any advice?
In February I hit Your website by accident as I searched the web for fetish items again. My search came to a full stop and I read everything on Your fabulous site. I am repeating other peoples comments, but it is really a great work.
I imagined how it would be to wear such a belt and asked myself if it would also serve as a masturbation control for me. This and other questions popped into my mind at the first glance of Your site. After reading the FAQ and other user contributions on the chastity theme, I decided to make imagination become reality and ordered a stainless steel belt from Walter Goethals which I am wearing right now.
Due to my paying an extra fee and a long discussion with Walter I was able to get my belt within seven weeks. Thanks Walter!
Someone may ask why I choose that belt. Okay, here is the answer. It was clear to me immediately that only a serious device would serve my needs. At the time I had to decide, only two serious and wearable designs were on the market.
So the decision was between the Tollyboy (or similar) and the Goethals belt. The Kastley device was out because of a note from a user (absolutely uncomfortable). The very interesting and good looking male belt from Latowski, which I would choose now, was not available at that time. The most important reason for my selecting the Goethals belt was its adjustability. I was sure that I could not measure myself correctly and there was no one who I could ask to measure me, so a mis-measurement was inevitable. I knew that the Tollyboy design would not fit exactly. But an exact fit is necessary when you want to wear the belt seriously.
Mis-measurements are not so bad with the Belgian design. I adjusted and readjusted my belt at least eight times. Another point was the reported better security of the Goethals belt. But that is just a minor thing because the Tollyboy design could be improved in that respect. More important to me was the shape of the design. I must admit that the Tollyboy looks much nicer than the Goethals belt and I would have ordered the Tollyboy if there would have been someone measuring me.
Well, this was the past, let's come to present day.
I wear my belt three days a week continuously, while I'm out of town. I put it on at home and leave the keys there. During that three days there is absolutely no possibility to get rid of the belt.
I think it is necessary, at least for me, to have no access to the keys, otherwise I would not stay so long (ha, ha) in that thing. I never made longer periods. The first thing I do when returning back home is unlocking myself and inspecting my member. I can't believe that someone can sustain longer periods. But when you are not the keyholder like me, there is certainly no choice. Poor boys!
At home I immediately put on the belt when my wife is going to work or elsewhere out of our house. This prevents me from masturbating and gives me the illusion that she has the keys. But these are hard times, because I can unlock myself when ever I want. So far, I have been able to cope with that temptation.
Of course I sometimes fantasize about a situation where my wife holds the keys - but do I REALLY wish that? While I waited for my belt to arrive, the answer would have been YES, definitely. Now, with my three days a week and wife out of house experience I'm not sure anymore and tending more to an answer like: Yes, but with a free time in between sessions. This would be more like my wearing pattern is now except the psychological component. A big one, I must admit. Another plus for handing the keys to her would be the vanishing of all temptation, when wearing the belt at home.
Am I comfortable with the belt?
This question is hard to answer. I do not have any hygienic problems. I could perform every bodily functions except getting an orgasm or masturbating. But that is exactly what I wanted. My problem is that I feel the belt every second while wearing it. It is not the perfectly designed waistband that causes trouble, it is more the permanent semi erection of my member which drives me crazy. The belt still turns me on but a full erection is impossible because of the curvature of the penis tube.
Nevertheless my member comes in contact with the tube and starts growing - in doing so it must follow the curvature of the tube. The result is a permanent pressure on my member. To cope with that problem for a few hours is nice, but for several days its awful. Maybe you will think of that as comfortable when you normally wear a more evil device like a KTB. But as I can not get satisfaction out of pain, it is not comfortable for me.
Is it true that you can not get even semi erect in a Tollyboy? And if so, is there no pain while wearing it, except from chafing or the waist band? And what about women? Unfortunately reports on their experience are very rare.
Has something changed in my everyday life?
Oh yes! First of all, I stopped masturbating completely. So when I have intercourse with my wife, there is more semen. The orgasm last longer and is more intensive. I concentrate more on the needs of my wife. That means the "warm up" lasts longer. In former times we made it once or twice a week. Nowadays we do it every day or almost every day when I am home and it takes us longer time than before. In short words, our sexuality improved a lot and she is wondering why. Okay it must have been my fault, but when you masturbate once or twice a day, there is not much semen left. I think this is the reason why accept the penalty of wearing the belt. Fidelity never was in question even without the belt. My wife is the love of my life and cheating never crosses my mind.
By the way, if You really want to cheat, you will! Cutting of the belt is just a matter of tools. The only thing is that it will be recognized when Your partner is the keyholder.
What else has changed?
Well, nothing, except I'm going to be a very cautious car driver. The imagination of having a serious accident while belted makes you become cautious. By the way, I drive round about seven hundred kilometers a week wearing the chastity belt.
My other fetishes latex and bondage are still a part of my life. I now combine them with the belt, which of course works fine as a bondage device.
This is my story, as a contribution to Your wonderful site. Keep up the excellent work, and Greetings to all chastity devotees.
Rudi
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