I have been a regular reader of your unique website almost since its inception. Although I have contributed in the past, perhaps your newer readers might like some background:
Mrs. Bard and I first discovered chastity devices on your site. During the past two years, we have experimented with these devices. We have purchased Jones, Walter and Access Denied belts as well as a Bird Cage. We soon found that I cannot seem to wear the Cage nor the Walter because of circulation problems. But the Jones and A.D. belts work just fine. So we have limited our use to just these for the past few months.
I worked with Paul of Access Denied to help with testing his first belt when he entered the marketplace and then to help perfect his design. I believe his is the finest chastity product now available. His use of Plastisol coating, heavier steel, and the one-piece extruded neoprene waistband cover are dramatic improvements. For 24/7 users like myself, even little things mean a lot. And Paul keeps working to make a good thing even better.
Mrs. Bard and myself are not into any "scene" or heavily into BDSM. We don't go to dungeons and would never think about discussing our private lives with anyone. We don't think poorly of those who are into that stuff. But it's just not for us. We are simply a couple living in suburbia USA doing our own thing in our own way.
After 18 months of off-and-on experimentation, I now find myself confined 24/7 and will be for the next 8 months. Mrs. Bard finds that she likes this very much and intends to allow me freedom only during the hot summer months. She intends to keep me belted constantly otherwise, allowing me out only a few times for sex during the non-summer months. I sleep, bathe, and do everything with the belt on. I do not have access to the keys, and our safeword may be used only in case of a true medical emergency. I am now locked up tight without a prayer of being released without the permission of Mrs. Bard. And right now, she seems extremely happy to keep me sexless for at least until Christmas. In fact, I am scheduled for only 7 orgasms until late May, 1999.
I have become very accustomed to my AD belt and I seem to be able to remain confined indefinitely. I have learned to move and bend well and can do some exercises with no problems. My wardrobe is designed to conceal the belt and I have no problems in that regard. And I have a number of techniques I use to achieve comfort and reasonable hygiene. The fit of the belt is perfect. As time goes by, the comfort seems to increase along with the frustration. There are long stretches when I am not even aware that it is on. But not TOO long, I am afraid. Mrs. Bard is very well aware that the use of this belt seems to be virtually unlimited.
It will be interesting to see how we progress as my belted months continue. I had thought that Mrs. Bard would tire of it and let me out, but this does not seem to be happening. She seems to be warming up to the situation more and more as the days pass.
Be careful what you wish for indeed!
Regards,
Bard
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