I do so much appreciate your web site. Hearing about other experiences helps us in our relationship.
I have written to you twice before and thought I might update you on our use of the Goethal belt and the differences we are experiencing. Please use this in your site but do not post my E mail address.
My wife holds the key for my Goethals chastity belt. We received the belt in Oct 97 after a 6 month waiting period. So far we are very pleased with its performance and the affects it has had on our relationship. The primary motivation for getting the belt was to extend the control my wife had in our relationship. Giving control of one's ejaculations is a great gift.
At first we tried the long term approach with me being belted in continuously for 3-7 days at a time. There was some chafing on my buttocks but not a deal breaker. However with the demands of my job she decided a better approach would be to be released while I was at work and then belted when at home or on the road if she accompanied me. When I return home I am locked up and kept that way until needed or I go back to work the next day. Weekends depending on our schedule sees me in the belt for longer periods. She even took the belt to a friends home that we visited and I was locked up at night so the control cycle was not broken. My wife's desires were to control me when she was around and was not worried about masturbation while at the office or on an unaccompanied business trips.
The experience has been very rewarding. I am very much gentler today and my wife does not need to worry about me rushing things. She controls the pace and whether I come or not. Most often her decision is not to let me come. Her answer is "when you become a better lover then you will be able to participate". My only role today is to satisfy her. We have practised this daily belting for the last 2 months and plan to practise this approach going forward.
In summary we are both very pleased with the effects the belt has had on our lives and look forward to an even better closer situation in the future, with her in control.
Mike
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