About hygiene:
I got used to urinating through the slit in the shield very quickly. The only problem being that some urine gets between the shield and the skin. Because the shield fits so close I can not clean it all with toilet tissue. The remaining drops I catch with a sanitary dressing that I always put in my slip when I wear the belt. To clean up as well as possible I shower every morning, trying to let as much water as possible to run under the shield. This does not work out very well though, and after a couple of days a disagreeable smell is unavoidable.
I can now defecate without soiling anything. I have to sit very straight on the toilet to accomplish this. In the beginning I often leaned forward too much, the chains are in the way then and a shower is the only remaining remedy. During my period I have not, up to now, worn the belt because I feel filthy enough after wearing it for some time.
My biggest problem wearing the belt:
Is the tight and stiff waistband. I just cannot get used to it. The belt is ever present and after a few days I want nothing more than taking it off. My longest wearing period has up to now been two weeks.
The safe place for the key:
Up to now I have had control over the key myself. By keeping it in the remote bank the threshold to open the belt was very high. I intend, some day, to present the key to my husband. Something he will certainly like. Before that happens I want to make sure I can take on significantly longer periods in the belt. I am not sure I can realize this. The goal of a half year of enforced chastity does not seem within reach yet.
End November 1996
2. Chapter: loss of control over the key
With regard to my chastity adventure some things have changed thoroughly. I have worn the belt continuously for the last two months and have lost control over the key. I never thought I could make it, but one can seemingly get used to anything. Now I want to tell you how this came about.
I locked myself in the belt once again for a new attempt on the 4th October. Except for the fact that the waistband continuously got in my way (especially during housekeeping and when taking care of the kids), I mastered the first two week astonishingly well. Therefore I decided to hang on for a few more days, at least till after the weekend.
Then it happened. My husband came home one week early on a Saturday. I could not get the key before Monday. I was able to hide the belt for him until the evening, in bed he noticed it. His initial astonishment soon gave way for a total enthusiasm. So I told him of my original plan, a half year of chastity. He managed to persuade me to hand over the key to him, which was done the following Monday. We agreed that the chaste phase should last till May 1st 1997. As I know him he will remain very firm on this matter except if a real emergency would arise.
When I realized what I had gotten myself into, I lived through some terrible days. The belt was a continuous nuisance. And I only wanted to get rid of it. I thought of breaking it several times. I did not however, want to allow my husband this triumph and hung on.
When I started to accept in my fate, my period started. At first I had serious hygiene problems. I begged my husband to unlock me for at least one wash a day. He did not yield and told me I would have to cope with it when he would be away anyhow. Somehow I got through.
After my period ended, my husband unlocked me for a short while and cleaned me and the belt. He took great care that I did not touch myself while this took place. Then he put the belt back on and locked it.
After I survived this the wearing of the belt became less and less of a problem. Even the waistband hardly bothers me. At times I forget that I am wearing it. One week ago when my husband went away on a business trip, he locked the additional secondary shield onto the belt. He had noticed that I often petted my protruding labia in bed. He wanted to make this impossible for a certain period.
This hardly changes the mechanical wearing characteristics of the belt. During the first days, however, it felt very funny when I felt between my legs and touch only metal, no part of my body.
The biggest problem with it is that it is extremely hard to keep clean. Each visit to the toilet takes a lot of time. Then the worst happened: my period came one week earlier than usual last weekend. Had this happened at the regular time, my husband would have been at home and could have taken the secondary shield off. Now I had to manage.
This all nearly drove me into despair last weekend. Several times I contemplated ripping off the shield or even destroying the belt. Till now I have remained strong.
Beginning of January 1997
3. Chapter: everyday life with the chastity belt
I can hardly believe it myself - I am still wearing my chastity belt. When starting this, I could not imagine being able to bear this merciless tormentor for so long. The breakthrough occurred, mainly, because I lost control over the key.
Had I kept the key - however far away deposited - I would certainly have given up. This is not so easy now, because I would have to reveal my weakness to my husband. This I want to avoid at all cost. Only that keeps me from destroying the belt sometimes.
Overall, I cope with the belt very well now. The frequent problem of chafing under the waist belt hardly occurs now. Some nursing is required, however to accomplish that. I have to guard scrupulously against dampness under the belt. I have to take great care while toweling myself off after taking a shower. I have to put a generous amount of powder between belt and skin. If I break out in a heavy sweat I have to take care to get dry under the waistband very quickly.
I have mastered the normal hygiene to some extent now. At least when not wearing the secondary shield. One good shower a day is enough to keep the odor problem within tolerable limits. I can not claim however to feel really clean. I can live with it though, and other people do not seem to notice. I change slip every day, which I used to do anyway. Additionally I always wear a sanitary dressing in my slip to catch any remaining drops of urine after a visit to the toilet.
During my period it is more difficult. With some trouble I now manage to insert a thin dressing under the metal. To do that I have to lay on my back and extend my legs at a certain angle to create some room between the metal shield and my body. Additionally I wear a thicker dressing in my slip.
I have only worn the secondary shield once (except for my initial short tests), and this was enough for me. A normal visit to the toilet is a real mess and the time when I have my period is totally unacceptable with it. My husband was very sorry I was wearing it when my period started. He was not around as my period was early. When he came home I was allowed a long bath - under his supervision of course. I was also allowed to clean the belt thoroughly. I was also allowed to bathe without the belt at Christmas. Of course I was not allowed or given possibility to masturbate. He says he will allow such baths occasionally after my period. Which makes the whole thing a lot more bearable.
About the use of the secondary shield:
The utility of this piece is relatively small. It does deny access to my labia but that would not suffice to reach orgasm anyhow. It definitely makes satisfaction with a vibrator harder. With a small top an orgasm might be reached without the secondary shield. With very strong vibrations it would probably be possible with the shield too if the whole belt could be brought in vibration. I have thought about such things sometimes but have never tried. Since then I don not keep a vibrator in the house to avoid temptation.
No orgasm for months:
Since I wear the belt continuously I have not had an orgasm. At first I missed this very much because I liked to please myself so much. I have gotten over that. My desire to masturbate has, through the very presence of the chastity belt, disappeared almost completely. I imagine I could reach orgasm without using a vibrator. This could be done by lying on my back as when inserting a sanitary dressing. I can then even reach my clit with my finger. Fast orgasm would not be possible because the possibilities to touch are insufficient. This position is really not very comfortable. A few attempts in this direction have luckily failed. A secondary shield by the way would not remedy this.
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