This story begins with a German male, named Martin:
Hello Jan,
First, congratulations that someone who speaks German has concerned himself with chastity belts. Second, a criticism you are probably unable to remedy: loading your page at this time is a true test of patience...
Nevertheless I am very interested in information about chastity belts for women, because I am very turned on by them. I even knew a couple in the local SM scene of which the woman wore a chastity belt of which the waistband had been welded shut (of course, the crotch-strap was not). Furthermore, I have corresponded, through the net, with a woman who has been locked in a chastity belt since last October (1996).
Give me a call ... Martin
I asked him for more information, especially about the problem of pregnancy or what happens if they break off the relationship in the case of the woman with the fixed waist band. He answered:
Hello Jan,
It has been a while since our last contact, time flies ... Which is why I have not spoken to the woman locked in the chastity belt since October. She wears a Tollyboy, without the secondary shield though, because it posed unbearable hygiene problems. Unbearable because she is really locked in her belt continuously. Her husband is often away for weeks at a time! It is only after her period that he unlocks her for a thorough bathing and simultaneous cleaning of the belt. The first time she was locked in the belt with the secondary shield resulted in a bloodbath when her period came. She had to endure it for several days because of his absence.
I will try to persuade her to let you publish the e-mail she sent me on your homepage. I believe she knows your page (and she complains about its slowness). When she contacts you she will use an alias like Anni or something like it.
The other woman with the welded waistband, is still married. They sent me a belated Christmas card. When I got the card, I gave them a call. She is still wearing the waistband, but only rarely, and mostly during the weekends, is the crotch locked up.
Obviously the attraction of the chastity belt has diminished (a pity really). She is still wearing the waistband because it would have to be destroyed forever to be removed. And, she has become accustomed to the pressure of it over the past years. She says that she can not remember how it feels to take a real deep breath because of the enforced hour glass figure. It does however have one advantage in that it diminishes appetite (Martina keeps her weight without any problem since she started wearing the belt).
She has worn the band for 5 years now and will only have it removed when she is certain that she is pregnant but has no ambitions in that respect. She knows however that she would have it opened when the rubber lining wears out. Luckily she seldom has skin problems. The belt is lined with neoprene-rubber that shows no sign of wear yet in spite of occasional visits to the sauna. Because the idea of something so permanent is attractive to both of them they are thinking of having bands welded close on Martina's wrists.
With all this I start fantasizing again and consider whether I would find it erotic if Martina's, or even better a woman belonging to me, crotch-strap were also welded shut... What feelings could emerge over the years ...
Talk to you soon, best wishes, will contact Anni,
Martin
Then Anni mailed me. The following is an excerpt of her first mail to me:
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I know that it is almost impossible to get info about women wearing a chastity belt. I therefore want to help extend the information available on this subject.
The few pieces one finds on the net or in books about women in chastity belts are mostly written from a mans perspective and mostly completely neglect the feelings of the women.
Nevertheless, I believe that a lot of women own and wear a belt at least occasionally. The reasons may be many and I would like to know what variety of reasons exists. Many women probably wear one only to please their husband or boyfriend and are glad to take it off after only a few hours or even minutes. People who do that know nothing about wearing a chastity belt in everyday life.
Only after having worn a chastity belt up to two weeks, without the smallest interruption, can one really know what (s)he is talking about: then one has experienced at least part of the problems and feelings involved.
[...]
Finally a request. I would be very interested to know about women who were or are forced to wear a chastity belt. What are their feelings? Can they cope with the situation? How do they manage health and hygiene problems. It is not that I condone forced chastity - on the contrary. As I wear my belt of free will, I cannot put myself in the position of those who are forced. But I really would like to know.
About the really gruesome method of preserving chastity, infibulation, surprisingly a lot is known. I am surprised that the subject chastity belt is so neglected. I would be very interested if you had, or could get, any info on this. For me the chastity belt has already become for an interesting part a life-experience and I would like to inform myself about this subject as much as possible.
[...]
Her second letter:
Hello Jan,
here follows the story about my experience with the chastity belt. I have added them below.
[...]
I have divided the story into three chapters. Each chapter covering another period. Also I have added some headings to structure the large quantity of text.
When reading the story you will find that it needs to be continued. I will write it once I have gather new experiences. That may not be until after a few months. If you are interested, I will send you the new texts.
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1. Chapter: first experiences with my chastity belt
Some time ago it occurred to me that a longer period of complete chastity, I thought about half a year or so, would very much enrich my experience. With chastity I especially mean, the avoidance of masturbation. Because my husband is away from home a lot, I do not have intercourse a lot, adultery is, for me, not in question.
I could not however, suppress my desire for masturbation with just my mind. I have tried several times, but failed each time after a very short while. Mostly it started with my tenderly, often unwittingly, touching my vagina with my fingers. Often this touching ended with orgasm.
A (girl) friend gave me the idea of wearing a chastity belt. She jokingly remarked that I should have a chastity belt put on me if I could not control myself otherwise. This joke increasingly became reality for me. After I informed myself as best I could where good chastity belts were to be had, I ordered one at Constance Enterprises in the USA. It is a La Ceinture de Chastete belt, an exact description follows below. This belt was made to my exact measurements that I had to fill in into a rather longer table. I have found no source in Germany that makes good chastity belts at an acceptable price. It took over two months before my belt finally arrived.
At first sight the belt looked relatively comfortable. At first I put it on for a few minutes to check whether it really fit. It was tight but really fit very well. I very soon decided to start a chaste phase that I could not end at whim. One Friday I deposited both keys in a banksafe 200 km away. When I got home the bank had closed already. Without a long hesitation I put the belt on and clicked the lock closed. Even if I wanted to, I could not free myself until next Monday.
The first hours passed without any problem, even urination went surprisingly well. It was however very unusual to do this with a naked lower body. The first night also went very well. I woke up a few times because when I moved in my sleep, my skin got pinched under the belt. Saturday became very disagreeable very quickly.
I intended not to think about the belt if possible and not to let it disturb my daily routine. I started the day with my morning walk in the forest. That was a big mistake, because I chafed my skin in several places.
The rest of the weekend was agony because some spots got inflamed quickly. I spend the balance of the weekend was spent with as little body movement as possible. Monday I went to the banksafe as early as possible to get the key for my release as soon as I could.
After that first painful attempt I did not touch the belt for a month. Then, I tried time and again to get used to it. Now I know how to wear it a lot better. I had to learn though to adjust my movements to cause as little friction as possible and to avoid skin getting stuck. Athletic activities are largely out of the question when wearing the belt, which is a shame.
[... description of WJS belt ...]
The locked belt fits very tightly to my body, at the waist and the crotch. In the crotch it is so tight it maker my labia protrude through the slit. When wearing the belt it is totally impossible to get myself to orgasm with my hands. No finger can be put under the shield far enough and touching the labia is not enough to orgasm. On the other hand the metal edges touching my labia are arousing, making me want even more what I cannot get. For a short while this is a crazy feeling.
To make touching the labia impossible, I have ordered a so called secondary shield, a curved piece of stainless steel that can be attached to the lower part of the shield and locked with the same lock as the rest. I have not used it often because it complicates hygiene.
[ Story continues - Part 2 ]
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