Hi Altairboy:
If you like, you might want to post my story of why we use a belt full time....
We have been very happily married for 7 years now, for the first 4 our sex life was great, both conventional and occasionally incorporating bondage, mostly myself being bound and then teased (we are big fans of total mummification using plastic wrap and duct tape). My job involves much travel.
One day on return I found a total barrier to any sex at all, and very painful 6 months followed as I tried to get the story. Eventually I learned of a sexual assault on my wife - she said she felt as if she had no control over her life, and now felt obligated to give sex.
At the time I had a magazine on cock restraints so I took a gamble and suggested a chastity device as a practical aid. To my surprise she agreed. We first tried a leather sleeve, it was a failure. Then we ordered one of those steel cages featured elsewhere in your pages it was so, so, but it made her happy, and believe it or not our sex life resumed.
She delighted in masturbating while I watched in frustration, or if I performed and satisfied her the cage came of immediately after her orgasm so that I could enter her. Occasionally she mummified me with my hands handcuffed to the cage, sweet torment-bound, touching penis but unable to come. However there were problems, prolonged use lent to chafing, I escaped on occasions, and my balls would go blue - a real worry.
So now we have a WJ belt, as described the belt is now adjustable to wear with a bit added into the back, and I use the elastoplast/elastic to prevent removal of the penis. We have a 3 week contracted period - (the contract was a lot of fun to negotiate) between fun times for me. We play this totally full time, if she doesn't want sex we don't have it and I am contracted not to push for it. If she does I try very hard to please her. At 3 weeks if she isn't in the mood I usually find myself very tightly bound, and then being masturbated. Actually this usually turns her on and things develop nicely.
Practical things, I never forget I am wearing this belt, it is always there. Frustration is a hard task master. I fight against chafing always. I hate pissing, it always dribbles.
But it has been the best thing I could have done for her, I spent $1000 on counseling for her, and this belt achieved all that counseling did not.
Finally do you know of a better rubber a person could use?
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