Why I Love Chastity

Why would a man voluntarily surrender control of his erections and orgasms to someone else? What makes that so hot for some men?

Well, in my case:

• I'm a submissive, so it is just an extension of what was already sexually charged for me.
• I'm a hopeless wanker. You'd think it would be more satisfying to have actual sex with a loved one, but that takes focus and honesty, and when you're as busy as we both are, the path of least resistance is to just beat off. Now that path is closed off, and good riddance. (A previous Wife made a good point, which was that if I was truly devoted, I shouldn't need a chastity device. That's very true. But for whatever reason, once I get an erection, if I can get to it, I can't keep myself from playing with it. Something about billions of years of biological imperative takes over, and all that obedience stuff is swamped. I wind up no brighter than a chimp masturbating in a cage at the zoo. A complete dolt. And then I feel bad about it later.)
• It grounds me in reality. Instead of fantasizing about some woman I'm never going to meet, do you know what I fantasize about now? Being allowed to fuck my own Wife. I'd like that a lot.
• It makes me treat Her better. I'm more attentive and considerate. I want to help Her with more tasks around the house. I'm more appreciative of what kindness She shows toward me. She looks sexier to me. I want to please Her. She is the focus of my emotions and sexuality. She is the only sexual outlet available to me, and I know it.
• I have never cheated on my mate, not once, in any relationship I've been in (the converse is not true, although I don't consider that "cheating" - I was grateful!). But now knowing that I couldn't if I wanted to really drives home the point of my predicament. Suppose some chick hit on me in a bar (I realize that's sci-fi, but let's pretend) - what the hell could I do about it? Tell her I'd like to, but my penis is locked in a cage?
• Because I'm not jerking off all the time, my sexual tension increases. When I am finally let out, I am much more aroused, much harder, much more desperate, and much more appreciative. If I am allowed to achieve orgasm, I produce giant amounts of ejaculate (not Peter North amounts, but pretty impressive anyway), and the orgasm itself makes my eyes cross. (And yes, She makes me swallow everything I produce, after waiting for it to cool and congeal, and after I am no longer horny, so it's as humiliating as possible.)
• As my sexual tension increases, the amount of pain I can convert to pleasure increases, which allows me to absorb extremely severe whippings, canings, paddlings, etc. from my Wife. She seems to appreciate having a target She can really wail on.
• It makes other parts of my body, such as my mouth, nipples, anus, and rectum more sexually responsive. Like a blind person whose hearing improves.
• By providing a bridge between one SM/sex session and another, it becomes a way to engage in lifestyle SM even when very busy, and without having to constantly think about it. Well, let me clarify that last point. SHE doesn't have to think about it. I think about it a lot.

Now if She would just cuckold me...

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