Man Desires CB, Wife ObjectsSubmitted by: DanHello Altairboy: Thank you for a great site, i have really enjoyed reading it!.
I would like to add thoughts to the following article:
I personnally believe the way forward is to try an plant the idea in your wifes mind, and gently encourage it to grow. By having a belt meassured and fitted without her knowledge is only going to make the situation a little harder for your wife to accept. I do understand what you are saying though, although my situation is slightly different due to my age. Lets just say reading this site is legal in the UK, but not in the USA (18 to 21). I have had a partner for a long time (3 Years +), we have a VERY strong relationship, and we do enjoy ourselves a great deal. Things started fairly Vanilla, but maybe this was our age. I basically live on the net :), and i am very interested in anything on the 'stranger' side of life, thats how i came across this site sometime ago, the way i see it i'll be dead for sure in 80 years with no second chances (depressing thought, but a fact non-the-less), if something appeals to me i'll try my best to give it ago. We try to slowly introduce new things into our sex live's. Chastity is something that REALLY appeals to me, and something my partner has really warmed to. I started by just showing her a couple of storie's on the net, which she read, thought about, digested and basically started to think of how it would benefit her, and now she is very much looking forward to slamming that lock shut!. Now we both read stories on the net and try new things whenever possible, but maybe this is because we have the same outlook on life. I guess what im trying to say, and you've probably already tried this, but if you sit down with your wife, and tell her how much it actually means to you personnally, ask her not to look at it from a 'kinky/bondage' point of view, but more a way of giving her more attention, and keeping you happy in the process. All she has to do is hold a key, and let you out when she choose's. I personnally believe that it does not boils down to 'kink or vanilla', but more 'open or closed' minds. If your wife isn't willing to even entertain the idea, then maybe you should give it up for a lost cause. Well, its just my opinion, and i can only comment on what you've written. I hope it helps a little.
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