Cultivating the Obedient Personality

Andy, my stay-at-home husband, has been an obedient and content wearer of a chastity device for several years. Our experience differs from those of others whose postings we have read, and we thought we might offer a few ideas that have worked for us.

First, my objective was not to turn Andy into a weak-willed, spineless sycophant who I could dominate and force to do my bidding without concern for his feelings. I could never love a man who was like that, and I’m sure that doing so would result in a highly dysfunctional relationship. I didn’t want him as a slave. I wanted him as an obedient husband. The objective was not unlike creating a good soldier, one who takes orders, puts forth his best effort and has a positive self-image.

I found the key to achieving that end was more in me than in him. I resolved to never act bitchy, shrewish, or to even get mad. I am the one in charge, and I control the consequences if he disobeys. I know that and he knows it too. In giving him orders, I look directly into his eyes, put on a no-nonsense expression on my face, and clearly and crisply tell him what I want him to do.

Andy has ongoing responsibilities in four areas. The first is housekeeping.

I expect him to dust and vacuum the whole house and clean the bathrooms twice a week. Furthermore, every day before I get home he is to scan every room to make sure that everything is in order, beds are made, clothes are put away, and no clutter is left on the furniture.

The second is meal preparation. I expect him to shop for groceries, prepare breakfast and dinner for me, serve the meals, clean the table, and wash and put away the dishes. Each night he also proposes the next day’s menus for my approval.

The third is laundry. He gathers my dirty clothes and then washes, dries and puts them away. He also is in charge of getting the dry cleaning done. The fourth area is personal services. Examples include giving me manicures and pedicures, assisting me in the bath, moisturizing my skin, shaving my legs, and standing by for whatever else I might require.

I lavish appreciation upon him when he does well. I’ll regularly come up to him, give him a hug and a kiss, and tell him what a great husband he is. However, I do not apologize for keeping his penis confined. He and I both know that he is an addicted masturbator, and that if released out of my supervision, he would regress into this behavior, and as a result, would dissipate the energy that I want him to direct towards doing his household duties and focussing on my needs.

It helps that Andy is very compliant by nature. He says he shows his love by going the extra mile for me in everything he does. He always seems to have a smile on his face, and he beams with pride when I compliment him on his housework. Life is pretty sweet - all because I control his penis.

Ms. Alison

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