Homebuilt Male Tube and my Experiences

I have NO self control when it comes to masturbation.

This would not normally be a problem, especially for my wife (even though I tried to convince her that I "spurt" at least once, and sometimes up to thrice a day). The problem that arises is that I'm reading erotica, or reviewing pictures and spend up to an hour at a time building to a spectacular climax when I have a tonne of other work to do.

In the last several months when she asked what she could do to convince me the importance of cleaning for her I have suggested a chastity device. Well, blah, blah, blah... I'm now wearing one.

It started not quite a month ago. She did it for a week at first (and was completely disgusted by the thought of it... ) I worked hard to (for once in my life) anticipate "woman" things for that week though cause I was desperate to get out! By "woman" things I mean stupid little things (that seem to make all the difference in the world) like cleaning up some spilled salt on the counter or putting away fix'ins ( mayo, meat, cheese ect) before I sat down to eat the magnificent sandwich I had made myself for lunch. I normally would have cleaned it up when I was done eating, but if she finished eating first then she would see this tremendous mess (in her eyes) and would become slightly depressed or disappointed (or whatever, I think you all know what I'm saying).

So, anyways for a week I cleaned the toilettes for the first time without being asked and maintained a slightly better house (hence peace of mind for her). After about five days she had me go down on her to orgasm and then rolled over to go to sleep spooning me really closely. I'd said she could do this and punish me with more days if I ever whined so I guess she was just testing me. A couple days later when I was released I had intercourse to orgasm while I had her tell me how wonderful she thought it was that I was not wasting time masturbating and how wonderful it was to get licked to orgasm and not have to worry about me almost humping her. Then I went down on her to a tremendous orgasm for her. While still licking her to a second, she gave me a hand job to a second as well. All in all it was quite satisfying. She even admitted how she still hated the thought of me needing to be locked up in order to behave so wonderfully but the results of the last week made it quite worthwhile.

Then...

For the next few days she left me unlocked. The last few days of my first week being locked up were extremely terrible due to night time erections. The chastity tube I was wearing was homemade, similar in design to remy's tube http://www.chastytube.com/index/ and the ring sizing was difficult. Due to our cold weather, my scrotum would frequently contract drastically in size and the testes would slip out. When I used an even smaller ring erections in the middle of the night would take 30 min or more to subside! I would often go to our ensuite and lose the door and pour cup after cup of very cold water over my encased monster. The last few nights of the first week I was getting up 3 or 4 times a night to do this! Ugh! What pain...

Anyways, so she left me unlocked after that and we seemed to always be fighting about something that week. The previous week when I was locked up I had made it a point to offer an opinion and then defer to her decision on most discussions. Often times she would even agree with my suggestions, but I never argued for what (I thought) was correct. So, the second week we were having a calm talk after a minor argument about me wanting sex. Anyways she wondered how could I want to wear something so stupid especially when it causes me such intense pain. I insisted that the pain was something I would have to learn to deal with and that I really wanted to be able to serve as a better spouse to her and since I couldn't do that effectively while masturbating freely that I really should be locked up in the best interests of our relationship. She shook her head, and yet again wondered out loud why I couldn't just make myself abstain!

At least She recognizes that my masturbation habit is indeed causing a huge problem for us. So, I was sorta "body language" begging for sex all weekend and on Sunday morning she finally gave in after I promised she could lock me up for 12 or even 14 days, AND she could have me locked up during her entire next period (when I ALWAYS ask for a hand job). She did come up with a solution of me wearing a super tight ring during the day (when I might go outside in the cold) and switching to a slightly larger ring for sleeping which would allow for my many nighttimes erections to subside more easily. So now she unlocks me at night and again in the morning to switch rings.

She's not "totally" into it yet and often leaves her key lying around the house when she goes to work. I naturally take advantage of this oversight and whack myself off silly for a half day till she comes home for lunch and then somehow end up confessing. She announces that this is not good to be deceitful and masturbate when I know she doesn't want me to. I claim that I just can't hold back if the key is lying around on top of her night stand. She hasn't alluded to any major punishment (extra days locked up) for these transgressions yet though. Although, when I think I'm about due to be released she might just say no for a few more days since I was bad. Guess we will see...

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