Hi,
we are Ron and Patty (writing) a married couple, 39 and 35 years old. We have been married for 8 years.
Not long after we got married I discovered my husband masturbating. I didn't t like that; I felt it was a lack of respect and consideration towards me.
He promised many times to quit and also made efforts to change his behavior. He was able to refrain for masturbating for a few weeks each time, but then he started again. About one year ago we discovered the Altairboy web-side and I start thinking if the CB could as a solution to our problems. I spoke with Ron about that and he was terrified. Again, he promised me to get rid of his habit. The usual pattern started again; he refrained from jacking off for a few weeks then he started again. I also discovered that he had gone out for lunch with a (female) co-worker. This was too much: he wanted to save our marriage he had to accept my terms: to completely relinquish control of his sex- life.
The first problem was to choose the right CB. I needed something suitable for a true 24/7 wear; I liked the Access Denied CB: it looks inescapable but it is also too confining and I doubt that it can be worn for extended periods (I mean months) without breaks. We both practice a lot of sports and outdoor activities that are rather incompatible with the AD belt; my hubby often travels by plane which raises the problem of Airport security. Then I saw the improved CB2000, he might not be as secure as the AD but is certainly more suitable for long-term wearing, allows freedom of movements and goes through airport security. I ordered it at the beginning of February and was delivered in a few days.
It came complete with five A rings, spacer, brass and plastic locks; the people at CB2000, Peggy and Doris were very friendly and gave us precious advice;.
When the CB2000 arrived I made Ron to try it at once; he wore it for about 12 hours both on the first and the second day; it was comfortable, his balls were OK and didn't get pinched between rings A and B. The next day he slept with the CB without any major problem. The following days the wearing time was increased almost without any discomfort.
As I said this was his last chance to definitely and permanently change his behavior; I would not have tolerated one more fault and, therefore I was not going to take any more risk in believing his false promises. The CB was going to became a permanent device for Ron; I would have decided when he might have a relief.
I established a detailed plan:
- 3 months of continuous wear of the CB2000 without any relief
- 6 months of CB200 wearing with a relief once a months
- a normal sexual life thereafter but associated with continuous wear of the belt which
comes off only for sex.
The aim of the first 3 months without relief is to force is body to get rid of the masturbation habit and make it to get used to long period of abstinence. The following six months are to stabilize the situation, giving him some relief but with long intervals between each one.
Now the first 3 months are over: Ron survived the challenge; he had a wet-dream after 51 days of confinement.
At the end of the period I released him and we had wonderful sex: three times that night and one more the following morning; then he went back to his cage. The CB2000 is really comfortable; Ron's says that he no longer feels it's there. It's not noticeable under street clothing and allows complete freedom of movements. Ron goes to the Gym, jogs and play tennis with it.
I also introduced other changes to Ron's habits; I thought his confinement gave me the chance to make some improvements in his and our life and this would also probably help him to work-out his chastity period.
First of all I shared with him the housework: now he takes care of cleaning the house and the laundry; I prepare the meals. He works-out at the gym every day except Sunday; I put him on a healthy low-fat, high protein diet. We often meet or invite friend at home. His typical day is very full and I don't think he has much time to think of sex.
In May he went on a business trip wearing the belt; he stayed away from home 4 days; he didn't experience any problem. Yesterday he came back from another business trip, in Europe this time.
We have set-up a web-site describing our experience with the CB2000. Please visit it. Comments, suggestions, recommendation are always welcomed.
The URL is:
http://chastisized.homestead.com/chaste0.html
Our E-mail is: chastisized@yahoo.com
Patty
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