Hi Altairboy
I thought I'd write to congratulate you on and thank you for your website. I discovered it a couple of weeks ago and have been coming back to it almost every day. I hope that my discovery (rather late in life) of the potential of chastity controlled by a SO, will make a significant change in my relationship with my wife.
I've had a relationship with the same person for about 25 years. We lived together more or less continuously during most of that period but separated in 1995 as a result of my infidelity. I consistently had affairs throughout our relationship and would sleep with any woman who was interested. My partner found out about some of these episodes, but had no idea of the full extent of my playing around.
Ten years ago I became passionately obsessed with a divorced woman - blonde, beautiful and imaginative sexually. My partner found out and asked me to leave. We lived apart for about a year. When I finally realised what a stupid mistake I'd made, I begged to be given another chance and proposed marriage to my partner. She agreed and we were married (with our twelve year old twin children as attendants).
Unfortunately I had not learnt my lesson and my solemn vow to forsake all others didn't seem to mean very much. I was unfaithful again within six months of the wedding and it seemed to be pretty much business as usual. Whenever the opportunity arose I would take it until finally I fell in lust again and my wife found out. She kicked me out again (in July 1995) and we are still separated.
Last year we started going out together again. It is incredible that She is still prepared to tolerate me, still loves me and is prepared to give me another chance. She does not want to live with me and does not want to make herself vulnerable to any further betrayal on my part.
One thing which has helped is that I have been able to discuss the submissive aspect of my sexuality and my longing for female domination. This was something which she had always previously seemed to find distasteful and to reject. To my great happiness, she has now started to explore and experiment with a D/s relationship. She now owns a riding crop, tawse and cane which she uses to punish me on a regular basis though she does not spank me as severely as I deserve. For her it is still play and but I believe our new relationship can deepen into a full 24/7 commitment for both of us. I hope that the acquisition of a chastity belt will help to achieve this if she is the sole keyholder.
After reading most of the texts and letters on your site I've decided that I should get two CBs. One will have to be the CB-2000 because I travel frequently which provides me with the kind of opportunity which I have found impossible to resist. I ordered one yesterday and can't wait for it to arrive. As for the other, I'm torn between the Tollyboy and Goethals designs. I think I've narrowed my choice down to the Shemale belt from Neosteel or the Goethals, but have not made a final decision. I emailed Walter with questions about delivery times and prices yesterday, but haven't had a reply yet.
If you're interested in further bulletins on our progress, I'm happy to report. Do feel free to use any of this on your site, but I'd prefer it if you did not publish my email address.
Thanks again for your website - it's entertaining, educational and liberating.
best wishes
Francis,
London, England
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