My thoughts on enforced Chastity

Know what I enjoyed during my period of enforced chastity (besides nothing)?

• Taking showers felt WONDERFUL!!!
• In the shower was the only place I could stand up while urinating (it's funny how you miss the things once taken for granted).
• The cb gave me a feeling of "snugness" which I found comforting, almost as if someone were constantly hugging me.
• I found myself driving more slowly and carefully.
• Ms. A noticed and remarked that I became more patient, more pleasant to chat with (and willing to sit and carry on a conversation) and more helpful around the house. (It's fair to say I discovered what's truly important to me.)
• I found myself becoming more deferential to women (although not all women). Ms. A commented on this, also (specifically, that I wasn't ogling or "girl watching" when we went to shopping malls).
• Life itself seemed to slow down and become more special. I noticed colors more.
• After the first week, I hardly noticed I was wearing the cb.

• And one very special one: I learned that I have many more erogenous zones than just my penis. Ms. A never unlocked me, but starting mid-way through my second week we did begin to explore, discover, and enjoy each other in ways I wouldn't have previously considered. For example, from Ms. A I learned that I love having my nipples sucked, tweaked, pinched (lightly), and played with. I also discovered that if Ms. A used her fingernails in my hair and behind my ears it sent chills running up and down my body (yum!). In return, Ms. A patiently taught me how to give her oral pleasure to her satisfaction (doing this, I discovered, turned both of us on, even if it was only mentally turned on for myself) and also how to give her full body massages using lightly warmed oil (an incredible sensation, no matter which side of the cb you are on!). And, as strange as it seems, watching Ms. A masturbate herself, or my masturbating her with my hand (using techniques learned from observing Ms. A, or learned from her very patient teachings), were also incredible experiences. I'm happy to say that these wonderful discoveries remain in our lives to the present day.

Know what I didn't enjoy during my period of enforced chastity (besides everything)?

• Drying after taking a shower.
• Being "stimulated." It seems that almost everything you see in advertisements on the television or in newspapers, magazines, etc. have some sort of sexual overtone or undercurrent. It can drive you crazy!!!
• I have lifetime or several year-length subscriptions to various men's magazines, including Playboy and Maxim. Reading these wasn't much fun because the visual stimulation was incredibly intense and caused the frustration meter to peg!
• Believe it or not, I found the same problems when I glanced through publications targeting women, such as Ms. A's subscriptions to People and Ladies Home Journal.

I'm sure you as well as others who log on to your web site can add to these. Perhaps you'd consider adding a site for additional "enjoyed" and "didn't enjoy" remembrances?

In any case, you have a great web site. I congratulate you on the outstanding job you have done and encourage you to keep up the good work!

Thank you
Mr. A

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