Hi AB,
After many months of experimentation with both the belt ( and how we relate to each other....) my wife and I settled into a on again / off again mode regarding the belt.
This was caused partially by the on again off again pain that I have suffered from an injury two years ago. After many changes in my diet and exercise, I have been finally able to start sleeping through the night without pain (something that made the belt a miserable experience), and my general health has improved greatly.
As you know, I have made many adjustments and modifications to the belt over the last year, and now have it fitting very well, and extremely secure. As I have discussed on the IRC, I have replaced the original bolt with a much larger bolt that has been painfully machined to accept the shackle of a medium duty Master Lock, and has been turned down and threaded to fit the original bolt hole. This hardware is not something that I can easily jimmy. Short of cutting the waist band, I would have to take a fairly heavy grinder to the bolt head to cut off the belt without destroying it. The idea of the resulting heat and sparks is enough to make me think twice about escaping.
I think there are always refining items that I would like to "finish" on this belt, but the reality is that once I thought about refining something and pulled the belt out of storage, I usually wound up locked back in it before I could do any serious work. (gotta eventually get a second belt, so I can work on it, while wearing the other one :-)
Anyway, a week ago Tuesday, the belt was pulled out of storage, and locked in place. And then something changed... my wife refused to let me back out (she always has the keys). We have played at this role on and off over the last year, in various forms, but with enough pleading, I could always eventually convince her to let me out. When we first started this role play a year ago, she would first lock leg irons on me, before she let me out of the belt, to insure that she could convince me to put the belt back on. This obviously was fun and worked for short term play, but our infant son is now 2 years old, and we have to be careful how we play.
She came up with a new wrinkle on this scheme last week. We have a number of "toys" we use in bedroom play, various handcuffs, cuffs, etc, with a key ring for whoever is in control. But she has her own key ring that she exclusively controls that has the keys to my belt, two heavy master locks, and handcuff keys to a pair of Smith and Wesson 104 cuffs. I don't know if you are familiar with 104's but they do not take a standard north american handcuff key. Smith and Wesson marketed these cuffs as high security items, and I think took them off the market after a convict managed to unlock them with a special pick. I don't remember the details, but I think someone was killed as a result of this. Regardless, I managed to buy a pair of these cuffs a few years back at Mr S. in San Francisco. My wife has control of these cuffs, because I am pretty good at picking standard handcuffs, but I can't get out of these. (I have really tried, time and again.)
So here is the new wrinkle. When it cam time for me to take the belt off for cleaning, she first reached over and locked both cuffs of the 104's on one wrist, and double locked them with a standard handcuff key (she did not have the 104 keys with her so I could not take them from her). Only after I had been locked into the cuffs did she reach over and unlock the belts master lock (I am no longer allowed to have the belt keys directly in my possession.) She then informed me that the cuffs will be in place anytime the belt is to come off (for love making, cleaning, etc.) and will only be removed after she has checked that I have locked the belt properly in place.
So although I have not been completely belted 24/7 these last couple of weeks, I have been strictly under lock and key 24/7. This is a major change in attitude for my wife, and I am not sure if she is just playing around, or if she has decided to give me what I wanted in the beginning, which is absolute control over my sex life. Time will tell how serious she is about this. ( I have not had to travel lately, so that will really tell me volumes about her intent when I have to fly again.)
Ironically, I had just put the belt on to play that day......
Last night, after cuffing my wrist, she let me out to make love. I took the opportunity to overpower her (in a love bondage manner of course), and put locking medical cuffs on her wrists and ankles, then padlocking these to long chains to each corner of our California king bed. The long chains allowed her some movement, but did not allow her to leave any side of the bed, or even to turn over. She is used to this occasion play, but normally I let her go after we make love. Last night I looked at her and said its payback time. I pulled the covers over her, and took a couple of blankets and slept on the couch the rest of the night.
So today we are back to daily grind, except that she has been released, and my belt had to go back on before she would take off the cuffs. ( I pleaded for a day off... she would not hear of it.)
So, is this short term play on her part or not? I'll keep you posted.
MM
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