Dear Altairboy
Its been a long time since I gave you any update from my attempts at home made PVC belts. In the end I went for the Neosteel product as it gave me the ability to measure and order accurately. That was a few months ago.
I ordered the steel belt and eventually it arrived. My SO was still not too excited about the idea and I tried to come up with some ideas upon which we could base the use of the CB on. Her main problem stemmed from the look of the CB and the hardness, in that she could not feel me up when she wanted to. This I said has to be a compromise.
In the mean time she has been complaining about my short fuse recently and I have not really been able to control my temper. As I told her the thought of being under lock and key was erotic, she said ok she will compromise.
I then after some thought suggested that she allow the CB to be used if I could control my temper - especially with my children. We decided to try on the basis that if I kept to my side of the bargain, we could use it. But after three days of what I thought was trying we still did not get to use it.
My next suggestion was to get some base rules settled. We came up with the following 24 hour cycle idea: If I behaved for 24 hours I could wear the CB for 24 hours. If the CB was on for 24 hours I would qualify for intercourse. If however I miss-behaved at any time and the CB was off the 24 hors would restart. If the CB was on it would come off immediately and would not go back on for another 24 hours. At all times the wearing would be at her discretion based on my behaviour, and intercourse would only occur when she wanted.
As my primary reason to come up with these rules was to get to wear the CB, I thought they were great - all I had to do was behave and I could wear it. My SO added another factor though. As I have my own business and have a serious backlog of work she said in addition to good behaviour I had to also put in extra work to get rid of the backlog as she was tired of dealing with irate clients. This I readily agreed to as it seemed a good way of getting up to date.
This principle started at 08:15 on Monday morning. By Monday evening it already started turning out to be not quite what I expected. Effectively unless I kept by her rules for at least 24 hours I would not qualify for intercourse - and if I broke a rule the CB would come off for at least 24 hours - and then I would have to wear it again for 24 hours before I would again qualify. That means if I did anything wrong Intercourse could be withheld for at least 48 hours all things going well.
Practically speaking - I had been in meeting all Monday and by 19:00 I closed my office which is separate but at home, and walked into the house. WE had dinner and my SO said either I go out and do some work or the CB comes off. At that stage it had been on for +/- 12 hours. At first I said to her well lets just call the idea quits and I would not wear it. But she was adamant.
If she wanted I would service her anyway she wanted, whether the CB was on or not and it did not mean the CB would come off. If it did come off I would put it back on afterwards so as to stay qualified, as well as have regular IC as per normal.
So I sat there and contemplated. I had already got half way to qualifying for IC and did not think to lose 48 hours at this time was worth it. Also bear in mind that the fact that I was half way to qualifying did not mean that we would have IC but just that it meant I qualify for it. I then decided that clearly it would be in my interests to stay qualified almost all of the time in case she wanted it. As a result I gingerly went back to my desk and put in another couple of hours work.
Needless to say it is now 15:00 on Tuesday, it was too late to do anything at 08:15 this morning when I qualified, so nothing happened, but at least I am still qualifying at this time. Who knows what will happen tonight when we go to bed. That is to say if I still qualify.
The moral of the story is be careful what kind of rules you you agree to - it may not work out as planned!
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