Hi Altairboy
I am writing to you in hopes that you might be able to share a few words of support, I do ask that I remain anonymous to ensure discretion please. You can call me LL.
Let me begin by saying it has been about 8 years that my wife and I have been together in a very loving B/DS/M relationship. We do switch, with me being the more dominate one by nature. However I like the more severe pain.
We have played around with this chastity belt I made (a very secure one I might add) out of stainless steel. It has a downtube, a handcuff, a waistband and chains. I am a mechanic by trade and it fits beautifully - so well, I forget its on quite a lot.
We would play for a day or two with her keeping me locked up. She would tease me and then afterwards she would let me out and we would have great sex.
I added 2 electrodes from a tens unit to my chastity belt. This is the only way that I have ever been able to achieve an orgasm, while wearing the belt. This is done with her teasing me into such a quivering frenzy that I am bucking against the belt. Then she would turn on the electrical current while whipping me until I come.
My wife is totally beautiful all around. I don't say this just because She is my wife but 38D 28 36 - long red hair - and a face and figure that makes me have to fight men off her wherever we go.
Saturday night we went out to a romantic dinner. I had the belt on for what I thought would be a night of roleplay and fun, but turned into a match of wits and a bet I don't know if I can handle.
After a few drinks I of course became cocky and said to her "You wont leave this thing on all night... You want it just as bad as me."
She replied "OK a week".
I said with all the balls in the world "I can do that standing on my head".
She replied "a month"
I became nervously aroused and said to her "You cant be serious"
Before I could finish saying the word serious, she said "2 months and I am very serious. You open your mouth or whine about it once more and it will be even more time".
like the challenging person I am, I did open my mouth, and got 2 more weeks on top of the previous time - a total of 10 weeks!
Let me tell you she is serious - I found that out Monday morning when she left for work and did not unlock me. Every night since then, she comes to bed in lingerie all perfumed up and makes me get her off numerous times and then goes to sleep leaving me hanging.
Each night she says (depending on what day it is - its the second week now) "only X more days left - You can handle it, right Honey? You are a big strong man - or do you want to whine about it?"
I am climbing the walls at this point - Last night I came into the bedroom to find all the candles lit, her lying on the bed in black seamed stockings, leather garter, leather open halter, and her custom made ballet boots, with a whip in one hand and the tens unit in the other.
After she made me pleasure her to earth shattering orgasms, she bound me in cuffs, collar and a hood, tied me spread eagle to the bed, and drove me wild for over 2 hours. Then she left me like that till this morning.
I am telling you this because I cant tell anyone else. Nor can I say any thing to her except to say "Thank You", or "I am just fine".
But I am going crazy at this point - SO FRUSTRATED - and getting worse ever day, what will help? Any advice or positive feedback would be appreciated.
Thanks
- LL
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