Chastity Chance
In your Collection Volume 4 No 2, you printed a letter, Games People Play, from a C.D. of Nottingham who wanted some ideas for games with sexual overtones to play with other couples, but not actually involving sexual intercourse or swapping. They had tried strip poker and a board game and wanted something else.
A while ago, we were in a similar position. Strip poker is fine for starters but loses its interest once the "mystery" is gone. We found our solution in another letter in one of your old issues I happened to pick up in a second-hand magazine shop. This involved a game of strip canasta with the added incentive that the losers would spend a period locked into chasity belts with the winners holding the keys. We didn't ourselves play canasta, but there are plenty of other games to choose from.
We have found it works extremely well. There is nothing like a period of enforced chastity to make us appreciate our sex lives when we have them, and the knowledge that when we do we are controlling the key to another couple who aren't makes it all the more interesting. We can certainly recommend it to C.D.
We have tried some variations. A good one is for the losing couple to have a night tied together, one in a chastity belt the other naked, with the other way round the following night. Also, although we haven't tried it, it would be possible for couples interested in swapping to play on the basis that each husband partners the other's wife; or husbands to play against wives for "domination" or whatever. There is all manner of scope for livening things up.
Our own games have occassionally taken an odd twist because sometimes, if the other couple (Jane and Derek) have had a row or, for some reason, Jane isn't in the mood she will play to lose on purpose!
We ususally play twice a week - Monday and Friday - with the losers chastity to be for the working week or weekend following. The belts we use we got (after quite a bit of delay) from a made-to-measure makers, and are of stainless steel. They allow use of the loo and can be worn for long periods if necessary. In fact, however, the longest losing run we've had is five sessions (two and a half weeks). This built up a lot of tension in me - but in retrospect, it was worth it. It gave a real incentive to the games. I've read that some people get sexual excitement out of playing for money: this is the real thing. There's nothing like it when the game is virually even and the winner only just does it on the last hand, or whatever. This happened last time we played, and it gave us four wins in a row so Helen and I know what Jane and Derek must have been feeling. Our next game is this evening and the tension is going to be quite considerable, especially if we beat them a fifth time!
The other thing we are considering is holidaying together in a country cottage for a fortnight - splitting the costs and playing for the right to use the double bed, so the losers sleep downstairs on the sofa or whatever and bring the winners breakfast in bed in the morning. This looks like fun - we're presently working out the details but we have agreed in principle.
One thing I can tell C.D. (and partner) is that if they play seriously, they will need good nerves!
The actual reality of spending night after night with your partner and wanting sex but being unable to get it is not for the weak-minded. It can be extremely frustrating and create a lot of tension, especially in the early stageswhen you're not used to it. After a while, however, one gets used to it. It's not unusual for us to have sex imediately after being unlocked, even when Jane and Derek (belted) are still at our home - this, of course, sets them up very well also. Last Monday happened to be their wedding anniversary so, for a present, we got Jane a really sexy pair of undies and arranged for Derek a strippogrammed card with a key printed on it. They practically exploded, and said they'd get their own back another time...
M.W.
Surrey
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