Dear Lady

Submitted by: Rachel

Dear Lady,

Reading this message may have life impacting consequences that you never dreamed possible.

Let me begin by telling you that this message is specifically intended to you; your first names and e-mail address were directed to us by someone you know, or at least pretends to know you. Most often this is a caring friend or associate and sometimes even family member; our promise is to never divulge the source. Once this message is sent, names and e-mail addresses are archived, and we do not expect a response due to the subject. Most often we do receive a most gracious ‘thank you’, usually months or even years later, and often with recommendations for candidate couples for an e-mail such as this one. This is not a prank, although we suspect some names submitted to us may be of that character (in a few instances where a prank was substantiated, the couple was clearly appreciative).

Before reading further, we ask that names of couples submitted to us meet the following criteria. If you do not feel you meet these criteria, please do not read further and delete this message and accept our apologies.

  • You and your husband/boyfriend are a couple with a substantial foundation and loving commitment to each other, typically together for some length of time.
  • You and your husband/boyfriend are well educated and consider yourselves of substantial intellect (research indicates a high acceptance and success rate regarding this issue).
  • You consider yourselves open-minded to new possibilities, seeking growth and constructive methods of collectively improving your long term quality of life.

Again, if you do not agree your relationship meets with these criteria, please stop, close, and delete this message. Our apologies if this message has reached you by error.

With that behind us, let me try to explain the ‘why’ of this message.

I am a successful woman in the upper ranks of the corporate world, known for my conservative style and aptly assertive methods with one exception. I am viewed by my colleagues to be a resolute advocate for women’s rights and empowerment, and probably over-extend my time on the soapbox when the topic presents itself. My husband, despite his predominately male-oriented profession, has always been supportive of my efforts to ‘balance the scales’ of gender inequalities. Due to my public reputation, I have chosen to keep my anonymity with a slightly modified name to protect the guilty. Yes, I do have a wonderful sense of humor, albeit sometimes warped according to my husband. With this brief background, let’s get to the topic.

My husband and I have shared a very blessed relationship over the years, probably more middle-of-the-road then we would like to admit, with occasional diversions sexually that would add a nice teaspoon of spice to a weekend. Enter the internet a few years ago and two people that are always open to discovering new resources to enrich our professional as well as domestic lives. A simple misspelling took me to a subject that would have never entered my mind. A moment of curiosity took me into a world that seemed repugnant at first glance and only God knows why I hesitated and read a letter from a woman extolling a mysteriously surprising bundle of benefits of a new ‘toy’. Her husband had purchased this ‘toy’ to add a ‘tablespoon of spice’ to their love life. Although she started out a reluctant player with this ‘toy’, she quickly realized the ‘tablespoon’ became a ‘full cup’, and it didn’t end there. Over time, she came to realize a number of behavioral consequences that were blatantly positive to their relationship. As far as she was concerned, the tablespoon gradually became a barrel of unexpected gains for them.

I couldn’t help but to continue and read on, exploring other letters, many of which echoed similar results. Some women abused the concept in their writings and took the subject to extremes, and other letters from men were obviously extending into the kink world, and in my mind would benefit from a trip to the therapist. But on a whole, what I was reading began to gel into an action path I couldn’t resist, especially given my proclivity to push the world towards a ‘balancing the scale’ mentality.

I continued my research and in a bold moment, ordered a popular version of the ‘toy’ from a prominent website. The next bold moment came when the ‘toy’ arrived in the mail. I unpackaged it and carefully inspected it methodically, then gift wrapped it and handed it to my husband after dinner. He was completely clueless as to its purpose until I mentioned the words: Male Chastity!

He instantly had a moment of blank stare, but responded quickly that he had recently read an article in Fox News (Locking Up for Love: Chastity Belts Return, May 21, 2001). We classically associate the subject with crusades and mid-evil ages. I was surprised to hear that the subject had made it to print, but judging from the activity on the internet, realized that sales were quietly booming ( I hope this company goes public because I want their stock! Incidentally, I am not affiliated in any capacity with any of the companies in this business).

To continue, my dear husband was quite welcome to the idea and our play commenced immediately. He undressed and we stumbled around with the initial fitting on him and finally had it securely in place and then came the magic moment that I was not prepared for. The sound of the click on the padlock brought about a reality that left us both speechless for what seemed like eternity. Remember, I am an advocate for equality, not domination. But suddenly having that power over him is unmistakable and you will not appreciate this statement until you close the lock on your man. This is only the beginning.

As predicted by the many letters from wives and girlfriends, our relationship has left the plateau and continues to grow. I can’t imagine how our love life can get better (and my colleagues wonder why I have such a positive smiling attitude). Although initially we didn’t use our new ‘toy’ all the time, we have moved closer to 24/7, except when he is with me and even then I somehow still find it a thrill to see him wear it around the house as I encourage him to be nude as often as possible. (In this regard I am thankful our children live in other states now). Oh, and by the way, you may consider shaving him, for a few reasons. I find it most pleasing.

Regarding the other positive benefits (beyond those that you will discover and probably didn’t anticipate), my husband and I have had a few enlightening discussions. One particularly revealing comment was his mention of a ‘feeling of freedom’, as odd as that may sound. Although he has maintained being completely monogamous, he has a sense that a weight has been lifted from his shoulders in that men typically are supposed to be interested in every skirt that passes by. All of that energy is now focused on me. And he does seem to be more focused on the things that he is supposed to be paying attention to, whether it is work, a project, church, or me. (By the way, when I mentioned this avenue of play during confession, my priest endorsed the chastity idea and wanted to know where they could be purchased in bulk. At the time I thought he was joking. He seemed to think the whole concept would alleviate a number of today’s problems and that historically, chastity should have started with men in the first place instead of women. Obviously I happily agree.)

Hence, this letter to you. Now it is time to share this secret with women everywhere, and my time spent on this project and the letters I receive are evidence that my ‘pay it back’ efforts are richly appreciated. OK, I will admit that I have succumbed to a different level occasionally that I read about in my research. I have used his appetite for our lovemaking to strengthen a few habits, like keeping his physical condition to my liking. And I have teased and kept him locked up for a week even after pleasing me daily with his tongue. His skills at that are much better then before. And a little frustration appears to move him off the scale when he does make love to me, which further excites me. Another benefit that I hadn’t anticipated? God I appreciate sex again. This letter doesn’t begin to cover what you will discover.

I love being his ‘keyholder’. The 'gift' to him? Our love play and bringing excitement back to our bed. His gift back to me was wholly underestimated; it is truly allowing me to hold all the keys to that lock. That gift is control over his cock, his sex, and is not to be taken lightly and comes with much responsibility. I am increasingly overwhelmed each time I click the lock closed when we have returned his cock to this device.

The spare key is sealed in a signed envelope that I have totally taped shut (use a clear packaging tape) so I would know if he tampered with it. I often wear the ‘special’ padlock key on my neck or anklet (he gave me a very extraordinary necklace for the key as a gift in return for his special gift). Only my very close special friends know what the key does, and all but one are now wearing one too. Those friends were the inspiring idea that helped form this letter, with their help.

There are several options and products out that you both will find satisfying. We have upgraded recently to a CB3000 which is a ‘cage’ model (no cumbersome belt) and you will find it works quite well even passing through airport security. Just type CB2000 into your favorite search engine on the internet (oddly, this particular product is manufactured in Nevada). Or just go to www.cb-2000.com and read the reviews and try the links, (but avoid the ‘extremes’ as some have ventured way beyond our perception of loving relationship).

Another option that two wives have written back to me involves a padlock through a ‘prince albert’ body piercing. They replace the padlock with special jewelry to enhance their sexual experience during lovemaking. Both reported their conservative husbands were very willing to have the piercing after finding out from the internet that the piercing is the most painless of all piercing, as well as the most rewarding. The only difference with this option is that he would be able to please himself if the cage is not also used. We are in the process of finding a piercing studio; the more he reads on the subject, the more excited and interested he has become (try WebMD) and I think I am too.

I am gradually becoming an advocate for a lock on every male.

But do your own research, tease and have fun. Above all else; have fun. And love.

God bless you,
Rachel


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